A few weeks ago I wrote about how I inadvertently allow my To Do list spoil my opportunity to bless others and be blessed in return. Since then, when I’ve gone out, I’ve been making an effort to set aside my To Do list and to look for opportunities to interact with others.
William James said, “The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.” Some simple ways I’ve tried to show appreciation to others are:
1. Smile. This is the fastest way to show others you like them.
2. Give a compliment. Saying something nice is an easy way to make someone’s day.
3. Ask a question. And don’t stop at “How are you?” Questions are a simple way to start a conversation. And people feel good when you’re interested in their life.
4. Listen. Everyone likes to be heard, and listening lets a person know you care.
5. Offer to help. If you see someone struggling, jump in and lend a hand! Get the door for a stranger. Give up your seat on the bus. Slow down and let a pedestrian pass–even if they’re jaywalking! The other day, our car died three blocks from the mechanic’s shop. Some guy helped my husband push the car the rest of the way. I didn’t even catch his name, but he was a hero to us.
Check out the Random Acts of Kindness Foundation for more ideas. Granted, some of these are premeditated, but planned kindness makes a difference too.
What about you? Leave a comment and tell us other ways we can make a difference in someone’s day.
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